What if i'm super awkward in photos? - Vogue inspired Wedding shoot.
Almost everyone feels awkward in front of a camera, especially when the stakes feel high like a wedding. The good news is: you don’t need to suddenly become a natural model. Riaan West makes a few smart adjustments that will make a huge difference. Riaan West did a Vogue inspired shoot so illustrate how simplistic posing can make you less awkward and still have that magazine shoot, look and feel!
First, understand that “awkward” in photos is usually about tension, not how you actually look. Shoulders tighten, smiles get forced, hands don’t know where to go. A good photographer. Riaan West is used to this. It also helps to practice a tiny bit—but not in a performative way. Stand in front of a mirror or take a few casual selfies just to notice what feels comfortable. Even something as simple as slightly turning your body instead of facing the camera straight-on, or relaxing your jaw before smiling, can soften everything.
On the day itself, shift your focus away from “how do I look?” to “what’s happening right now?” Talk to your partner, laugh with your friends, react to real moments. The best photos usually come from those in-between seconds when you’re not trying so hard. You can also give yourself something to do in photos—hold hands, walk together, adjust a sleeve, lean in for a quiet comment. Movement naturally reduces that stiff, posed feeling.
If it’s really weighing on you, consider doing an engagement shoot first. It’s basically a low-pressure rehearsal where you get comfortable being photographed and build trust with Riaan West. And one honest truth: you might still feel awkward in some moments—but that doesn’t mean you’ll look awkward. People are usually much harsher on themselves than any camera is.
Venue: Jonker Estate, Stellenbosch
Estate: Botmaskop Estate
Photographer: Riaan West
Concept: Vogue
